Episode 7: Create Your Life With Francesca Fiorentini
What choice can you make today that will change your life right away?
Today, Brendon talks with Francesca Fiorentini, worldwide coordinator of Access Consciousness, about what it means to create your life.
Listen to learn how to start choosing for you and create the future you want to have.
On today’s podcast:
- Choosing for you
- You don’t have to get it right
- Choice creates
- Acknowledging the greatness of you
- What can you be and choose today that will make your life greater?
Links:
Click here to download the show summary for the One Choice From Change podcast with Brendon Watt.
Choosing for you
Francesca was recently promoted to worldwide coordinator of Access Consciousness. When asked about one choice that has stood out for her that actually changed the trajectory of her life, she thinks back to more than 8 years ago.
That big choice was finally looking at what she really desired in her life and what she really desired to create. She had spent her entire life trying to make others happy, but they were never happy.
She tried everything, because she wanted to know more and she knew something different was possible, and one day she came across Access. She saw the change in her friend after having her Bars run, and she knew that’s what she wanted. That has been the biggest choice for her, to start choosing for her.
You don’t have to get it right
The thing that trips people up the most with choice is trying to get it right, but all that does is stop you from choosing.
Instead, what if you were willing to get every choice wrong? You can choose something, and if it doesn’t work you just choose something else.
There’s no one choice to rule them all. It’s about continuing to choose, one choice after another, the choices that light up your path.
Choice creates
We’re not actually taught that our choices create. We’re shown that if you choose this, this is going to happen.
Every choice really creates. When you first learn about this, it can be a bit scary or intimidating, but there is no right or wrong choice, there is only awareness.
You are actually allowed to choose and then ask questions based on that choice about what your future will be, and it’s not about having an answer. It’s about waking up each morning with this awareness and choosing to create your life every day.
Acknowledging the greatness of you
Bringing ourselves to acknowledge who we really be is one of the hardest things in the world to do.
Who teaches us to see our capacities and abilities? No one.
Even when someone tries to tell us how great we are, usually there is some element of judgement attached to it, so we start trying to create ourselves to maintain that “acknowledgement” they’ve given us.
So it’s really looking from that place of where your life is today, what choices you made to get there, and where you’d like to go.
What can you be and choose today that will make your life greater?
Something you can ask yourself every day is this: What can I be and choose today that will make my life greater?
It’s not about being like anyone else. It’s about being you. Dr. Dain Heer wrote a book called Being You, Changing the World.
There’s really no excuse when it comes to changing your life around. If you’re at rock bottom, you can always choose something else. There is always another possibility. Even if your life is phenomenal right now, at Access we say: how does it get any better than this?
